Fire

آری، آری ، زندگی زیباست زندگی آتشگهی دیرنده پا برجاست گر بیفروزیش، رقص شعله اش در هر کران پیداست ورنه، خاموش است وخاموشی گناه ماست سیاوش کسرایی / / / / / Life is like fire, can burns forever. If we turn it on we can see flame dances from far away, other wise its dark and thats our fault.

mooshe hich kari nadasht fagaht......
megoft joone delam, in hame del tooy doniast, chera hich kodoom mesle dele kahrabe sab mordeye man tofheye zanhaye khooshgel nemishe?.....
mege oon dele fooladi peye keife khoodeshee, laaghal az ashke cheshesh zire pash gel nemishee



1- Do you think is it too much to ask to have some one around you, who would do all the little and small things that would makes you feel good, and that person would do them not beacuse he/she is player but just beacuse makes you feel nice and warm.
do u think is it too much to ask to have some one who would like u and appreciate u, while u have the same feeling toward her/him?

Do you think these are just wishes that would only happne in the "perfect" world?





2- Also If yo want some thing, or you want the person you have relationship with (any sort of relationship ) behave in a specific way toward you;
and you tell them couple of times what you want and they refuse doing it.
then what you will do?

a- Ignore what you wanted, and what was important for you and try to convince your self that there are some more important things in the world.

b- Try to find some one else, who knows what you want or at least when u talk about it, he/she would underestand and do some thing positively about it.

c- Try to behave in the way, that things wouldn't bother you, and you wouldn't have any sort of expectation from others, try to be self sufficeint so you would fill your own need, => so you will end up writting your concern in your weblog.!!!! and try to talk to your self, cuz you are self suffiecent and you dont' need any body else!!!!!

d- Make a big fight and make them listen to you and do what ever you want, beacuse they are affraid of you.




A bonus mark: ;)

e- "mokheshoon ro mezani"
I would highly appreciat if you explaine any specific way of mokh zani that you think it might work.







mege in del mage az fooladee, ke tooy in dore zamoone cheshasho ham bezareh, ke hichi nabine, ya age chizi did kham be abroosh naiaree?

mege har seke meshe ghalb bashe, ama harche gahlb shod del nemishee....
na dige, na dige, na dige in vase ma del nemishee

Let me remember that, In situation that I don't have any answer for, I listen to my heart.

And not let others make me do things that I'm not comfortable with.









p: It might be an ordinary situation but still you don't feel comfortable because of believes you have and ext. Then what? Shouldn't you listen what SOME other people expecting you to do?


probably not, If I don't' feel good about behaving in specific way, then its not the right time and the right situation for me to change. I shouldn't force my self to adopt an idea for the sake of pleasing some one else. Even if they have their "own" rational reasoning behind it and all I can say is : "I'm uncomfortable with it."

I should respect my self more, and believe that I can have my very own comfort zone. And thats one of the characteriastic that would make me special and diffrent by any body else.

Be like the promontory against which the waves continually break, but it stands firm and tames the fury of the water around it.

4.50 Marcus Aurelius

Behesh megam : doosam dari?
Behem mege: ghavi bash.

Every moment think steadily as a person with perfect and simple dignity, and feeling of affection, and freedom, and justice; and to give thyself relief from all other thoughts.

2.5 by Marcus Aurelius